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MindsOnGuard's avatar

This is fantastic material!! Such an interesting and personally thought provoking topic. Here are some of my answers to the first set of questions with regard to the affect heuristic

The affect heuristic is one that I have applied numerous times throughout my life, often multiple times per day. I would say that its a true statement that my primary operative frame for decision making was filtered through this heuristic for most, if not all of my twenties.

It seems to show up the most whenever I am faced with a situation where I am able to perceive some kind of judgment from others based on whatever it is I choose to say, be, do, represent myself with/as. anything that could elicit a response from others where there is potential for them to look at me in a n unfavorable light.

It is most destructive to others because I do not allow them to have their own thoughts and feelings about me in any given situation. I prejudge their motives, responses, thoughts, and inner heart desires based on assumptions and biases that I hold rather than allowing them to be who they are. I see this as destructive because it destroys the potential for any meaningful relationship to be formed between myself and much of the world around me. I shut people out before we have a chance to get any steam rolling regarding ways where we might help one another or have any kind of common bond. I see great potential for this to cause pain in other people because, while I may not perceive that I am doing harm, I am very likely cold, curt, cutting, short tempered and generally rude in my interactions all out of a desire to protect my feelings and being motivated from a place of controlling the environment around me to suit my desire to be loved and seen as worthy of love.

In the exact same ways, I do harm to myself. I desire love and relationship, yet applying the affect heuristic in the ways that I have results in very shallow, cold, unloving relationships that all could have been quite different had I chosen to seek truth and understanding rather than move from emotional bias and assumptions.

Yes, I can see being skewed toward emotionality as a weakness because it becomes very easy to cloud truth and reason when we are too consumed by emotional responses. Anger is not a great thing to operate from when we are trying to understand ways to solve problems. That emotional filter has a very high risk of bias and can cause a person to make decisions in a blind rage where they are not able to recognize good, love, empathy, compassion or their own capacity to have misjudged a situation. When I am angry, I am very defensive, I am quick to respond, and its often through a very shallow and spiteful frame of mind. This usually will end up poorly, to say the least.

I can also see that having an understanding of our own emotionality can be very beneficial as it could be signals to us to examine our surroundings in a much deeper way than we had been before. Again, my anger is usually a response to a perceived threat. This may be real and I would do well to examine the situation for any truth to that perception. If a real threat is present, I may apply the affect heuristic and protect myself from danger and harm.

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As you've pointed out, skewing towards emotionality as the foundational basis for decision making is errant and a weakness. One that I definitely suffer from. I see this a lot within my comfort seeking behavior. In this, I base decisions off of what would allow me to avoid painful or uncomfortable emotions. In short, seeking happiness only at the expense of all other things (other people/truth/etc.)

However, I could see the skewing towards emotionality as potentially a great strength. As I see it, emotions serve as great indicators of our environment and drivers of our movement. For example, anger could indicate to an individual that there has been a wrong and would be the impetus to seek correction. Feeling sadness deeply can be a driver towards connecting with community or moving towards empathy, particularly in the context of grief. Without that emotion present, one may be able to logically conclude that a wrong has been done or that grieving is appropriate. However, that emotional depth allows for a warmth in communication, particularly from person to person in the form of a shared emotion. Communicating at that level in a healthy way is a great strength and one I hope to nurture. Of course, emotion must always be tested for its truth value using the thinking systems you are outlining within your writings lest we fall victim to the affect heuristic and the delusion it may generate. Awesome essay, Shane!

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