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To take on a few of your questions here:

Do you think any of the cautionary statements from this series so far apply to you? If so, in what ways do they apply? If not, answer why not, while being careful to be specific.

Absolutely. I can see this cycle playing out in my life almost daily, and this is specifically a result of reasoning from a desire to be unassailable, like you detailed in the cognitive dissonance essay. I avoid pain, which I attribute as being assailable, which means that my prior-held beliefs are challenged/found to be wrong, and since this is antithetical to reality, the only path if I'm going to continue that line of reasoning is to conform the rest of reality to my desire for unassailability. That means that I restructure my own failures and use a self-serving bias, actor-observer bias as well as confirmation bias in processing past events, and continue forward as long as I can living in that state of false harmony until reality slaps me in the face again. I also write off and simplify new information, such as your writing, assuming that I do not need it as much as I do, already know it, can "beat the system" or learn it by rote, all in submission to my desire for unassailability, which would also require that I distill reality down to one that is errantly simple when reality itself is complex, yet to admit that is to be assailable in that I don't have the skills to process it at that level. I recognize you said "series" in your question now, and I am speaking directly to the statements in this post, however I identify with each of your cautionary statements all of which, for me, stem back to this very core issue.

What have you learned from this essay?

First, that questions have specific and deliberate functions which are largely outside of my awareness in day to day life. Such as the choice to ask, "what is that?" when pointing up to the sky, as opposed to "why is that" or "where is that", and that part of what you are pointing to is the underlying structure that leads to those questions being asked which we can tap into to maximize discovery. Second, and similar to what I am seeing in other recent posts, is that the possibilities of questions to ask are incredibly vast and require creativity and openness to generate. Which leads me to my answer for the next question...

What do you think you need to do to increase your ability to question at a deeper level?

Inhibit fear, and the determination to be unassailable. When I see strings of questions like this, I feel anxiety and intimidation rather than wonderment and excitement, and that is a result of the problem I articulated with the first question. I see the complexity before me and desire to eradicate it due to the impossibility of answering every question perfectly and/or immediately to the service of my own unassailability.

What can you do to let yourself allow learning to be fun?

I think that associating it with playful, childlike themes and/or approaches would help. Or just approaching the information as a child would, which would strip away the need and desire to be unassailable. I can pick a topic that is silly or absurd in order to practice these concepts rather than viewing it and approaching it with a sense of pressure and need to achieve at a certain level, which is a non-start, because I approach from a place of wanting to find the perfect system or question or way of practice prior to just diving in somewhere, which is better than nothing!

If you were to imagine that anything you set your mind to would be possible with a lot of effort and hard but smart work, would it alter how you study? Would it alter how you live your life?

Absolutely! There would be no fear present, which would alleviate that inner chatter I always experience when approaching something new or a weak area in me- the chatter that is not unlike the Naysayer/Achiever dialogue in your very first post. I would be innovative in my pursuits, present with information and with others, and live in a way that is bold and courageous, and make a difference using the information I process rather than hoarding it and/or avoiding it out of cowardice.

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